Saturday, 7 June 2025

"Your worth isn't defined by a position"

 






Your worth isn’t defined by a position

“At 58, they told me I was too old for the job… and for the first time, I wasn’t ashamed to cry.”

I spent my whole life working in an office. I wasn’t a boss, but I wasn’t invisible either. I filed, organized, helped the newcomers. I wasn’t the heart of the company, but I was a steady piece of it. Then one day, they called me into a five-minute meeting and told me I no longer “fit” the company’s vision. They handed me a letter, gave me an awkward smile… and showed me the door.

Walking home with a cardboard box in my hands was more humiliating than any failure I’ve ever experienced. My kids were grown and living their lives. My wife hugged me, but didn’t know what to say. I sat in the kitchen for days, wondering what to do with so much empty time. I felt discarded. Broken. Invisible.

One ordinary Saturday, I went for a walk and passed a small neighbourhood school. I saw a woman struggling to move some heavy desks. I helped her without thinking. She asked if I was a volunteer. I said no, but I had time. She told me to come back Monday.

So I did.

And I kept going.

First I repaired chairs. Then I sorted supplies. Then I started showing some kids how to use an old computer. I wasn’t paid. They didn’t offer me a contract. But every time a child said “Thank you, teacher,” something in me lit up.



Today, I’m 61. I still go to that little school. I don’t care about fancy job titles or business cards anymore. Because I finally understood: your worth isn’t defined by a position—it’s defined by what you give when the world thinks you have nothing left.

Sometimes, you get thrown out of the wrong place… just to arrive at the one where you truly matter.

– Ramiro





Sunday, 1 June 2025

Put the chain on me too, Dad

 


Put the Chain on Me Too, Dad

A story that speaks to every parent’s heart

Once there was a little boy who lived with his father.

Every morning at home was rushed and tense.

“Wake up!”

“Why are you so slow?”

“Fix your hair!”

“Take your juice, and don’t spill it!”

But the boy often spilled it.

And every time, his father shouted,

“You never listen! You never do anything right!”

The boy didn’t talk back.

He just stayed quiet, picked up his things, and left for school.

But inside, he felt sad… and a little scared.

At school, he didn’t laugh much.

He watched other kids smile and wondered why he didn’t feel like that.

He wasn’t naughty. He wasn’t loud.

He just stayed in his corner, quiet and alone.

One day, his teacher asked the class,

“What does your father do for work?”

The boy didn’t know what to say.

That evening, he gathered courage and asked his dad,

“What do you do at work?”

His father replied,

“I train dogs.”

The boy thought for a moment.

“What do you teach them?”

His father answered,

“I teach them to obey. To stay calm. To protect people. To guide the blind. To be loyal, brave, and patient.”

“Wow,” said the boy softly. “And how do you teach all that?”

“I put a little chain on them,” his father said.

“I walk beside them. I correct them gently. I speak softly. And after that, I give them love so they don’t feel scared. It takes a lot of patience.”

The boy’s eyes filled with tears.

He looked at his father and said,

“Then… put the chain on me too, Dad.

Teach me like that.

Be patient with me.

Don’t shout.

Correct me gently.

Hug me afterward so I know you still love me.

I’ll learn. I’ll be better.

And one day, if you can’t see… I’ll be your eyes.”

His father didn’t say a word.

He just pulled the boy into a hug. A real one.

And in that moment, something changed.

Not through yelling.

Not through rules.

But through love.

Moral of the story:

Children don’t need to be shouted at to learn.

They need patience, kindness, and love.

Correct them gently.

Show them they are safe, even when they make mistakes.

Because love isn’t loud… it’s shown in small moments.



 


Saturday, 24 May 2025

" A Leader with Soul" - Pope Leo XIV

 


The untold story of new elected Pope Robert Prevost: In 1975

Robert Prevost was at the top of his game. Chicago math teacher. Devout Catholic. Accepted into Harvard Law. He had everything a young man could dream of, But then—he made a decision that no one saw coming. He said no to Harvard
No to a six-figure future. No to fame. No to comfort
And yes—to something few dare to choose: A life of complete surrender. He joined a missionary group and moved to Peru. Not to the cities. Not to the tourist spots .
But to the *most* remote villages—where children die from treatable diseases. And families walk miles just for clean water. There were no roads. No running water. No WiFi
Just mountains. Silence And poverty. But he embraced it like home
Robert didn’t just live *among* the people. He became *one* of them
• Learned Quechua—the sacred language of the Incas
• Carried food on foot for days
• Slept on dirt floors with the villagers
• Prayed under the stars
When he wasn’t building shelters. He taught math to barefoot kids under broken rooftops. When he wasn’t teaching. He carried the sick on donkeys to get help. When he wasn’t healing. He listened—truly listened—to stories no one else cared to hear.
While his friends from back home became lawyers and doctors. He became something else entirely.
A shepherd
A brother
A quiet warrior of faith
And slowly—his legend grew. His acts weren’t broadcast. But they echoed through the Andes
Bishops noticed
Priests noticed
And eventually—the Vatican noticed
They called him back to lead his entire Augustinian order. From serving a village. To overseeing 2,800 brothers in over 40 countries.
Still—he kept his same sandals
Still—he walked with the poor
Still—he rejected luxury


Then came the call that changed everything:
Rome wanted him closer. In 2020 He was appointed Archbishop and assigned to govern other bishops globally. It was rare. But Robert had never chased tradition. He wasn’t just fluent in Latin or Canon Law.
He was fluent in *compassion*
In humility
In listening
In *presence*
The Vatican didn’t just see a priest. They saw a *leader with soul*. On September 30, 2023. Pope Francis made it official:
Robert Prevost was named a Cardinal. Just one step below the Pope
And then… in 2025
History was made. For the first time ever
An American
A former math teacher
A missionary to the forgotten
Was elevated as the 267th Pope of the Catholic Church




And he didn’t forget the people who shaped him. To this day. Pope Robert still returns to the same villages.
Still prays in Quechua
Still sits on dirt floors
Still holds the hands of the elderly in silence
Because leadership he believes:
Is about *presence* not position
The world is obsessed with power.
But Robert Prevost proves:
• Titles mean nothing without service
• Knowledge is useless without love
• And faith—without sacrifice—is noise
He turned down the world. And changed it instead.



Saturday, 17 May 2025

" It's up to You "

 



" It's up to you "

My mom did not sleep. She felt exhausted. She was irritable, grumpy, and bitter. She was always sick until one day, suddenly, she changed.

One day my dad said to her:

- I've been looking for a job for three months and I haven't found anything, I'm going to have a few beers with friends.

My mom replied:

- It's okay.

My brother said to her:

- Mom, I'm doing poorly in all subjects at the University.

My mom replied:

- Okay, you will recover, and if you don't, well, you repeat the semester, but you pay the tuition.

My sister said to her:

- Mom, I smashed the car.

My mom replied:

- Okay daughter, take it to the car shop & find how to pay and while they fix it, get around by bus or subway.

Her daughter-in-law said to her:

- Mother-in-law, I came to spend a few months with you.

My mom replied:

- Okay, settle in the living room couch and look for some blankets in the closet.

All of us gathered worried to see these reactions coming from Mom.

We suspected that she had gone to the doctor and that she was prescribed some pills called "I don't give a damn”... Perhaps she was overdosing on these!

We then proposed to do an "intervention" w/my mother to remove her from any possible addiction she had towards some anti-tantrum medication.

But then ... she gathered us around her and my mom explained:

"It took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their life. It took me years to discover that my anguish, anxiety, my depression, my courage, my insomnia & my stress, does not solve your problems but aggravates mine.

I am not responsible for the actions of anyone & it’s not my job to provide happiness but I am responsible for the reactions I express to that.

Therefore, I came to the conclusion that my duty to myself is to remain calm and let each one of you solve what corresponds to you.

I have taken courses in yoga, meditation, miracles, human development, mental hygiene, and in all of them, I found a common denominator in them all...

I can only control myself, you have all the necessary resources to solve your own problems despite how hard they may be. My job is to pray for you, love on you, encourage you but it’s up to YOU to solve them & find your happiness.

I can only give you my advice if you ask me & it depends on you to follow it or not. There are consequences, good or bad, to your decisions and YOU have to live them.

So from now on, I cease to be the receptacle of your responsibilities, the sack of your guilt, the laundress of your remorse, the advocate of your faults, the wall of your lamentations, the depositary of your duties, who should solve your problems every time to fulfill your responsibilities.

From now on, I declare all independent and self-sufficient adults.

Everyone at my mom's house was speechless.

From that day on, the family began to function better because everyone in the house knew exactly what it is that they needed to do.




Saturday, 10 May 2025

Parenting - Challenges and "Let them Fly"

 



The challenges of being a Parent.

When you first have children they talk about the challenges of parenting....the struggles of a baby waking in the night, the toddler who won’t stay in their bed, the cost of childcare, injuries from sports...

Having to take off work to pick them up from school when they don’t feel well, helping them with homework, a messy house, the never ending laundry, the cost to buy school clothes, packing their lunches....

You watch their eyes light up on Christmas morning....and try to soak in the magic of those moments.

You coach them in sports, rushing to practices and ballgames...and bring them all over the country to let them play the game they love...no matter how exhausting or expensive it becomes.

Life is just so busy that you rarely even stop to think what the end of those days look like.

In fact, it’s not really even something you can wrap your mind around.

You go into it thinking that 18-20 years sounds like a long time....

Then suddenly hours turn into days...days into months...and months into years.

That little person that used to crawl up next to you in bed and cuddle up to watch cartoons...suddenly becomes this young adult who hugs you in the hallway as they come and go.

And the chaos and laughter that used to echo throughout your home....gets filled with silence and solitude.

You’ve learned how to parent a child who needs you to care for and protect them....but have no clue how the whole “letting go” thing is supposed to work.

So you hold on as tight as you can...wondering how time passed so quickly...feeling guilty that you missed something....

Because even though you had 20 years.....it just somehow doesn’t seem like it was enough.

You ask yourself so many questions...

Did you teach them the right lessons?

Did you read them enough books as a child?

Spend enough time playing with them?

How many school parties did you have to miss?

Do they really know how much you love them?

What could I have done better as a parent?

.....When it’s time for them to go, it all hits you like a ton of bricks.

And all you can do is pray....hope....and trust that God will protect them as they start to make their way into the world alone.

Parenting is by far the most amazing experience of your life....that at times leaves you exhilarated....while others leave you heartbroken.

But one thing is certain.....it’s never enough time...

So for all the parents with young children...whose days are spent trying to figure out how to make it through the madness...

Exhausted day in and day out...

Soak. It. All. In.

Because one day....all those crazy days full of cartoons, snuggles, sleep overs, Christmas morning magic, ballgames, practices and late night dinners...

All come to an end.

And you’re left hoping that you did enough right, so that when they spread their wings....

They’ll fly...

 


 


Saturday, 3 May 2025

"Rosa's Promise"

 





"Rosa’s Promise"

In a quiet village tucked between the mountains and rice fields, Rosa lived with her three daughters—Elena, Pilar, and little Corazon. Since the death of her husband, Rosa had worked tirelessly to provide for them. She was known for her kindness and strength, though the weight of raising three children alone often made her heart heavy.

When the Japanese army arrived in their village during the war, fear crept into every home. Families whispered of soldiers taking food, homes, and even lives. Rosa held her daughters close each night, whispering prayers for their safety.

One morning, the sound of boots on the dirt road echoed outside their small hut. Rosa quickly hid her daughters beneath the wooden floorboards. "No matter what happens," she whispered, "stay quiet. I will protect you."

Days turned into weeks. Food grew scarce. The once-green fields lay abandoned, and the air was heavy with worry. Still, Rosa found ways to care for her daughters. At night, when the village fell quiet, she would sneak into the forest to gather wild roots and fruits. She mended their clothes by candlelight and told them stories of better days to keep their spirits alive.

One cold evening, Elena fell ill. Rosa’s heart ached as her eldest shivered in her arms. She knew she had to do something. Risking her life, Rosa went to the nearby garrison where the Japanese soldiers were stationed. With trembling hands, she knelt before the commanding officer and asked for medicine.

The officer, taken aback by her courage, asked, "Why would you risk yourself for one sick child?"

Rosa lifted her head, her eyes fierce with love. "Because she is my daughter," she said softly. "And I promised to keep her safe."

Something in her voice must have moved him, for he gave her a small bottle of medicine and warned her not to return. Rosa hurried home, and within days, Elena’s fever broke.

Despite the hardships, Rosa never let fear harden her heart. When the soldiers weren’t watching, she would share what little food she had with other mothers in the village. She taught her daughters that even in the darkest times, kindness was their greatest weapon.

Years later, when the war finally ended, Rosa’s hair had turned silver, but her spirit remained unbroken. Her daughters grew into strong, compassionate women—just like their mother. Elena became a healer, Pilar a teacher, and little Corazon, who had once clung to Rosa’s skirts, grew up to become a writer who shared stories of courage.

On warm evenings, they would gather around their mother, now a grandmother, and listen as she told the tale of how love and sacrifice had carried them through the war.

And each time, Rosa would smile softly and say, "A mother’s promise is forever."

"Rosa’s Gift"

The war had ended, but its shadows still lingered over the village. Houses once filled with laughter stood quiet and broken. Rosa, though weary, continued to work hard. Her hands were rough from years of toil, but her heart remained soft for her three daughters—Elena, now learning to heal others, Pilar, who taught the village children, and Corazon, who scribbled stories by the window.

One afternoon, as the sun dipped low behind the mountains, a stranger arrived in the village. His uniform was gone, replaced by a simple suit, but Rosa recognized him immediately—the Japanese officer who had given her medicine when Elena was near death.

Villagers watched with cautious eyes as he walked to Rosa’s doorstep. She stood in the doorway, her back straight but her heart pounding. What could he want now?

The officer bowed deeply, a gesture of respect. "SeƱora Rosa," he said quietly, his voice softer than she remembered. "I have come to repay a debt."

Rosa’s brow furrowed. "A debt?"

He nodded, and for a moment, he seemed to struggle with the words. "When you came to me during the war, I saw something I had forgotten—kindness and courage. Your love for your children reminded me of my own family, far away. I have not forgotten you."

From the bag he carried, the officer pulled out several small packages. The first contained bottles of medicine, more than Rosa had ever seen in her life. "For your daughter, if she ever falls ill again," he said.

The second was a bundle of crisp bills—more money than Rosa could have earned in years. "To help your family rebuild and give your daughters the future they deserve," he explained.

Tears welled up in Rosa’s eyes, but still, she hesitated. "Why do this for us?" she asked softly.

His face grew solemn. "During the war, I followed orders without question. But you… you reminded me what it means to be human. I hurt this village, but your kindness saved me from losing my soul entirely. This is the least I can do to honour you and your family."

Rosa’s hands trembled as she accepted the gifts, but her voice remained steady. "Thank you," she said. "You did not have to do this—but I am grateful."

Before he left, the officer handed her one last envelope. "For you," he said. Inside was a letter of recommendation for her daughters to study in the city, a future beyond the hard life they had known.

Years later, as her daughters built new lives—Elena opening a clinic, Pilar leading a school, and Corazon publishing stories of their village—Rosa would sit beneath the old mango tree and think of that day.

She had fought to keep her promise to her children, and in the end, kindness had found its way back to her.

And every time she saw her daughters thrive, she would smile softly and whisper, "Love always comes full circle."

"Rosa’s Second Chance"

Days turned into weeks after the Japanese officer’s visit, but his kindness lingered in Rosa’s heart. She often found herself thinking about his words—the softness in his voice, the weight in his eyes. For so long, she had carried the burdens of motherhood alone, never daring to dream that anyone might want to share them.

One afternoon, as Rosa swept the front yard, she heard footsteps approaching. When she turned, there he was again—no longer a soldier, just a man. He carried no gifts this time, only a look in his eyes that stirred something deep inside her.

"SeƱora Rosa," he began softly, his hands clasped before him. "Forgive me for disturbing you again. But there is something more I must say."

Rosa set the broom aside, brushing her hands against her apron to hide their trembling. "You have already done more than enough for us," she said quietly. "Why are you here?"

The officer took a step closer, his face filled with a vulnerability she had never seen during the war. "I stayed in this village longer than my orders required," he confessed. "At first, I told myself it was duty. But the truth…" His voice faltered as he searched her face. "The truth is, it was you."

Rosa’s breath caught in her throat. "Me?"

He nodded, his voice heavy with emotion. "I watched you care for your daughters when the world was falling apart. Your strength, your love—it changed me. And I began to hope… to dream of a life where I could be by your side, not as a soldier, but as a man who loves you."

Tears burned Rosa’s eyes, but she held them back. For years, she had known nothing but survival. The idea of being loved—of sharing her burdens—felt almost too much to hope for. "Why would you choose me?" she whispered. "I am a widow with three daughters. My life is not easy."

His voice trembled as he answered, "Because you gave me something no one else ever did—you gave me back my humanity. I am not asking to replace your husband or the life you had before. I am asking if you would let me walk beside you, to care for you and your children as if they were my own."

Rosa felt her heart ache with the weight of all the years she had spent alone—nights spent praying her daughters would be safe, mornings working through exhaustion. And yet here stood a man offering not pity, but love. A love she never thought she would find again.

Tears slipped down her cheeks as she looked at him. "My daughters…" she murmured.

"I will love them as a father should," he promised, his voice thick with emotion. "If you allow me."

In that moment, the walls Rosa had built around her heart began to crumble. She thought of Elena, Pilar, and Corazon—how much they had lost, how much they still needed. And for the first time in years, Rosa allowed herself to hope for more.

With a trembling hand, she reached for his. "I have carried this life alone for so long," she said, her voice breaking. "If you are willing to share it with me, I will not turn you away."

His fingers tightened around hers, warmth flooding through her. "I will never leave your side," he whispered.

From that day forward, the officer—no longer a soldier but a man named Hiroshi—became part of their family. He worked alongside Rosa in the fields, mended broken furniture in their small home, and told stories to the girls as they drifted to sleep. Little by little, his love healed wounds the war had left behind.

Years passed, and the village slowly bloomed with new life. Elena became a healer, Pilar a teacher, and Corazon a writer who told the story of their mother’s courage and the man who loved her when the world was at its darkest.

And on warm afternoons, Rosa and Hiroshi would sit beneath the old mango tree, watching their daughters laugh and play. With his hand in hers, Rosa knew she had found more than a partner—she had found a love that had been waiting for her all along.

As the breeze whispered through the branches, Hiroshi leaned close and murmured, "You were never meant to carry this life alone."

And for the first time in what felt like forever, Rosa believed it.




  

"Your worth isn't defined by a position"

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