Saturday, 27 December 2025

End of Year Reflections

 

 “We end the year with gratitude and begin the next with hope.”


An End-of-Year Reflection

As this year comes to a close, we do not look away from the world.

We know that war still rages—in Ukraine, in Gaza, and in many other places whose names may not always reach the headlines. We know that loss, displacement, and grief have shaped countless lives. The suffering is real, and it matters.

And yet, we choose how we end this year.

We end it aware, but not defeated.
We end it grieving, but not hardened.
We end it hopeful, not because everything is healed, but because compassion still lives.

This year showed us the worst of humanity—and also its quiet courage. We saw people help strangers, speak truth, protect life, and refuse indifference. We witnessed love persist where hatred tried to dominate. These moments may not have stopped the wars, but they remind us that goodness has not disappeared.

Hope, in times like these, is not denial.
It is resistance.
It is the decision to care when apathy would be easier.
It is the belief that peace is still possible, even when it feels distant.

As we step into a new year, we carry more than memories—we carry responsibility. To be kinder. To stay human. To choose empathy over silence and compassion over fear.

The year ends, but our care for the world does not.
And as long as care remains, hope does too.



Hope is not Blind

We end this year aware.
Aware that the world still aches,
that too many nights are broken by fear,
that peace has not yet found every home.

And still—we choose hope.

Not the kind that looks away,
but the kind that stays present,
that mourns what is lost
and believes in what can still be restored.

Hope lives wherever compassion survives.
It breathes in every act of kindness,
every prayer whispered for strangers,
every refusal to become numb.

The year ends, but our care does not.

 “Even in darkness, humanity has not disappeared.”


“Hope is choosing compassion in a hurting world.”

“To hope right now is an act of courage.”






Saturday, 20 December 2025

Choose Peace this Christmas

 

“Peace does not begin when wars end, but when we dare to see one another as human—even across the lines that divide us.”



On a frozen Christmas Eve in 1914, enemies laid down their weapons and stepped into the space between trenches. No speeches. No treaties. Just voices rising into the cold air, sharing carols, stories, and names. For one brief night, the war remembered what it had forgotten: that the men on both sides were human.

Christmas in the Trenches does not pretend the world is healed. The song is honest about how quickly the fighting resumed, how history kept moving toward more violence. And that honesty is what makes the moment so powerful. Peace, the song reminds us, is fragile—but real. It can exist even in the most unlikely places.

This story challenges our idea of Christmas as something soft and comfortable. Here, Christmas shows up muddy, tired, and trembling, yet brave enough to cross lines drawn by fear and politics. It suggests that peace is not a grand declaration, but a decision made face to face: to see the other not as an enemy, but as a fellow soul.

In a world still marked by division, Christmas in the Trenches asks a quiet question: What trenches exist in our own lives—between nations, communities, families, or hearts? And what would it cost us to step out, even briefly, to meet one another there?

Christmas in the Trenches

My name is Francis Tolliver. I come from Liverpool
Two years ago the war was waiting for me after school
To Belgium and to Flanders, to Germany to here
I fought for King and country I love dear
It was Christmas in the trenches where the frost so bitter hung
The frozen field of France were still, no Christmas song was sung
Our families back in England were toasting us that day
Their brave and glorious lads so far away
I was lyin' with my mess-mates on the cold and rocky ground
When across the lines of battle came a most peculiar sound
Says I "Now listen up me boys", each soldier strained to hear
As one young German voice sang out so clear
"He's singin' bloody well you know", my partner says to me
Soon one by one each German voice joined in in harmony
The cannons rested silent. The gas cloud rolled no more
As Christmas brought us respite from the war
As soon as they were finished a reverent pause was spent
'God rest ye merry, gentlemen' struck up some lads from Kent
The next they sang was 'Stille Nacht". "Tis 'Silent Night'" says I
And in two tongues one song filled up that sky
"There's someone commin' towards us" the front-line sentry cried
All sights were fixed on one lone figure trudging from their side
His truce flag, like a Christmas star, shone on that plain so bright
As he bravely strode, unarmed, into the night
Then one by one on either side walked into no-mans-land
With neither gun nor bayonet we met there hand to hand
We shared some secret brandy and wished each other well
And in a flare-lit soccer game we gave 'em hell
We traded chocolates, cigarettes and photographs from home
These sons and fathers far away from families of their own
Young Sanders played his squeeze box and they had a violin
This curious and unlikely band of men
Soon daylight stole upon us and France was France once more
With sad farewells we each began to settle back to war
But the question haunted every heart that lived that wonderous night
"whose family have I fixed within my sights?"
It was Christmas in the trenches where the frost so bitter hung
The frozen fields of France were warmed as songs of peace were sung
For the walls they'd kept between us to exact the work of war
Had been crumbled and were gone for ever more
My name is Francis Tolliver. In Liverpool I dwell
Each Christmas come since World War One I've learned it's lessons well
That the ones who call the shots won't be among the dead and lame
And on each end of the rifle we're the same
-- John McCutcheon "Christmas in the trenches"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5on4WK1MpA

 “The miracle of Christmas is not that peace once happened—but that it can still happen wherever we choose compassion over fear.”




1915 on Christmas Day : Celtic Thunder

On the western front the guns all died awayAnd lying in the mud on bags of sandWe heard a German sing from no man's land
He had tenor voice so pure and trueThe words were strange but every note we knewSoaring or the living dead and dammedThe German sang of peace from no man's land
They left their trenches and we left oursBeneath tin hats smiles bloomed like wild flowersWith photos, cigarettes, and pots of wineWe built a soldier's truce on the front line
Their singer was a lad of twenty oneWe begged another song before the dawnAnd sitting in the mud and blood and fearHe sang again the song all longed to hear
Silent night, no cannons roarA King is born of peace for evermoreAll's calm, all's brightAll brothers hand in handIn 19 and 15 in no man's land
And in the morning all the guns boomed in the rainAnd we killed them and they killed us againAt night they charged we fought them hand to handAnd I killed the boy that sang in no man's land
Silent night no cannons roarA King is born of peace for evermoreAll's calm, all's brightAll brothers hand in hand
And that young soldier singsAnd the song of peace still ringsThough the captains and all the kingsBuilt no man's landSleep in heavenly peace

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fxyw4GG2Iq4

Perhaps Christmas does not promise the end of all wars. Perhaps it offers something smaller, and more demanding: moments where we choose compassion over hatred, listening over shouting, humanity over ideology. These moments may not change history overnight—but they keep hope alive.

And sometimes, that is enough to begin.

“ Choose Peace this Christmas ”


“Peace may arrive quietly, briefly, and imperfectly—but every time we choose it, the world is changed.”.




























Saturday, 13 December 2025

Christmas Forgiveness + Loss

 


The Long Road to Christmas

(Moral: Forgiveness is the longest journey—and the greatest gift.)**

Ben and his younger sister, Ruthie, hadn’t spoken in nearly five years. A bitter argument over their parents’ estate had left both wounded. Their mother had always said,
“Nothing breaks a family faster than pride.”
But neither one had been ready to let go of theirs.

Until this Christmas.

Ben was driving home through a blizzard, the highway nearly invisible beneath swirling snow. His mother’s familiar voice echoed in his memory:
“Come home for Christmas. Your heart needs it.”

At a gas station in the middle of nowhere, Ben noticed a woman struggling with a suitcase. When she turned, his heart stopped.

It was Ruthie.

She gasped. “Ben? What are you doing here?”

“Driving home,” he said awkwardly. “Mom asked.”

“She asked me too,” Ruthie whispered. “My bus broke down.”

Silence stretched between them like a frozen river.

Finally, Ben said, “Get in. I’ll drive you.”

The storm worsened. Snow lashed against the windshield, and the car crawled forward. With no radio signal and the road disappearing every few miles, they sat in heavy silence.

After an hour, Ruthie said quietly, “I miss her.”

“Yeah,” Ben said, voice rough. “Me too.”

Another long pause.
Then Ruthie added, “I miss… us.”

Ben gripped the wheel tighter. “I know.”

Lightning flashed across the sky, followed by distant thunder snow.

“I was angry,” Ruthie said. “Hurt. I thought you didn’t care what I felt.”

“I cared too much,” Ben admitted. “But I didn’t know how to say it without sounding like I was trying to win.”

Ruthie let out a soft laugh. “We treat everything like a competition.”

“Even love,” Ben murmured.

The storm forced them to stop at a tiny roadside inn. There was only one room left, so they sat on opposite beds, awkward and unsure.

Ruthie finally whispered, “Can we start over? Not pretend nothing happened—just… start from here?”

Ben looked at her—really looked at her—for the first time in years.
Her eyes were tired, but hopeful.

“Yeah,” he said. “Here is good.”

The next morning, the snow cleared. They drove the rest of the way home together, sharing memories of childhood Christmases—Ruthie’s crooked gingerbread houses, Ben’s disastrous attempts at gift wrapping, their mother’s laughter echoing in the kitchen.

When they walked into the family home, their mother stood waiting, tears streaming down her face.

“You came together,” she whispered.

Ben and Ruthie exchanged a glance.
“Yeah,” Ruthie said softly. “Together.”

And that Christmas, the greatest gift wasn’t wrapped—it was the courage to forgive.






The Bells of Evergreen Lane

Moral: The heart grows when we listen for what others cannot say.

Evergreen Lane was the most decorated street in Pinebridge every December—strings of lights zigzagging from house to house, inflatable snowmen waving cheerfully at passing cars, wreaths on every door. Every home shimmered with color and sound.

Every home… except one.

At the end of the lane stood an old, weather-beaten cottage with peeling paint and empty windows. No lights. No garland. Not even a wreath. Children walked quickly past it, whispering stories about ghosts and reclusive hermits.

The truth was much simpler—and far sadder.

Inside lived Mr. Rowan, a retired music teacher who had lost his wife, Mara, the previous winter. The two of them had once been the heart of every Christmas celebration in Pinebridge. For forty years, they baked cookies for the neighbourhood, tied ribbons around lamp posts, and played handbells on their porch on Christmas Eve.

Their duet was legendary.

But after Mara passed, the bells went silent. The ribbons untied themselves. The lights burned out. And Mr. Rowan shut the door on Christmas altogether.

One snowy afternoon, ten-year-old Emma Carter, a girl with more curiosity than fear, noticed a faint sound coming from the cottage as she walked home from school—a soft chiming, barely there, as if a memory were whispering through the air.

“Mom!” she said breathlessly when she ran inside her house. “I heard something from Mr. Rowan’s! I think… bells.”

Her mother paused. “Sweetheart, I don’t think Mr. Rowan plays anymore.”

But Emma couldn’t shake it. The sound had been real—gentle, hesitant, like someone trying to remember a song they had once known by heart.

That evening, Emma grabbed her sketchbook and went back to the cottage. She sat on the snowy curb and began sketching—the house, the snow-draped roof, the bare tree branches—hoping the quiet might invite the bells again.

After several minutes, the door creaked open.

Mr. Rowan stepped outside, wearing an old sweater and a look of mild confusion. “Young lady… why are you sitting in the cold?”

Emma stood quickly, holding up her sketchbook like a shield. “I—I wanted to draw your house,” she stammered. “It looks lonely.”

To her shock, Mr. Rowan didn’t snap. He didn’t send her away.
He simply sighed.

“Yes,” he said. “It is.”

There was a long silence. Then Emma asked, softly:
“Was it you? Earlier? The bells?”

A flicker crossed his face—pain? Memory?
He nodded. “I was dusting them. They’ve been hanging on the wall for a year. I touched one by accident.”

“Will you play them?” Emma asked, hopeful.

“No.” The answer was gentle but firm. “Some music hurts more than silence.”

Emma left reluctantly, but something in Mr. Rowan’s voice lingered with her—the slightest tremor of longing.

That night, she gathered the children of Evergreen Lane.

“Mr. Rowan used to play bells with his wife,” she told them. “They haven’t been heard since she died. I think… I think he misses the music. But he’s scared to feel sad again.”

“What can we do?” asked Jacob from next door.

“I have an idea,” Emma said.

And so the children began their plan.

For the next week, they decorated the outside of Mr. Rowan’s cottage—not with loud blow-up decorations, but with small, quiet things:
– hand-drawn stars laminated with tape
– soft, warm lights wrapped gently around the porch
– pinecones dipped in white paint and hung like ornaments
– tiny handwritten notes tucked near the doorstep that read, We’re thinking of you.

Mr. Rowan never came outside, but every day something moved slightly—a note taken inside, a pinecone ornament repositioned. He was watching. And listening.

On Christmas Eve, Emma led the children to the cottage with a basket of tiny bronze bells she’d bought at the crafts store.

They stood on the snowy walkway, each holding a bell. Emma knocked.

Mr. Rowan opened the door, eyes wide.

“Why are you children out here?” he asked, voice thick with surprise.

Emma stepped forward. “We wanted to bring the bells back to Evergreen Lane.”

The children began to ring their bells softly—not loud, not like carollers or performers.
Just gentle, warm chimes, like snowflakes brushing the air.

Mr. Rowan closed his eyes. A tear slid down his cheek.

“I can’t play without Mara,” he whispered.

Emma took a step closer. “Then… play for her.”

In that moment, something in him broke open. He disappeared into the house and returned holding his handbells—beautiful, polished brass, trembling in his grasp.

With shaking hands, he lifted them.

The first note was fragile, wavering.
The second steadier.
The third carried the memory of forty Christmases filled with harmony.

Soon, the bells were singing.
Mr. Rowan’s face lifted.
The children stood around him, their tiny bells chiming softly in harmony.

Neighbours emerged from their homes, drawn by the sound. Lights flicked on all along Evergreen Lane.

For the first time since Mara’s passing, Mr. Rowan’s house wasn’t dark.

It glowed.

And above it all, the bells of Evergreen Lane rang out—not perfect, not polished, but filled with heart.

  • Who in your life might be waiting for a small gesture of connection this season?



Saturday, 6 December 2025

" You are Special "

 



You are Special.

In all the world there is nobody, nobody like you.     Since the beginning of time there has never been another person like you. Nobody has your smile, your voice, your eyes, your hands, your hair.  Nobody has your handwriting. Nobody can paint your brush strokes.

You are Special.

Nobody has your taste for food or music or dance or art. Nobody in the universe sees things as you do. In the whole of time there has never been anyone who laughs in exactly your way, and what makes you laugh or cry may have a totally different response in another.                                                                                                                                            You are different from any other person who has lived in the history of the universe. You are the only one in all creation who has your particular set of abilities. There is always someone who is better at one thing or another. Every person is your superior in at least one way. Nobody in the universe can reach the quality of the combination of your feelings and talents.

Like a roomful of musical instruments some might excel in one way or another but nobody can match the symphonic sound when all are played together.

Your symphony.

Through all eternity no one will ever walk, talk, think or do exactly like you. You are rare and in all rarity there is enormous value. Because of your great value the need for you to imitate anyone else is absolutely wrong.

It is no accident that You are Special.

Please realise that God made you for a special purpose. He has a job for you to do that nobody else can do as well as you can. Out of the billions of applicants only one is qualified. Only one has the unique and right combination of what it takes and that one is you.

You are Special.                                                                                                           





Saturday, 29 November 2025

"Living with Autism"

 




Description of being autistic by Ava

 

“Take a seat and sit with me

I want to talk about ASD

If you don't mind I'd like to explain

A little thing called autism and how it affects my brain

It can make me anxious, angry and afraid

But this stays in my head, on my face it's not displayed

I may seem heartless and question your meanings

But it takes me a little longer to process the feelings

Take a seat and sit with me I want to show you ASD

A girl sitting quietly is all you see

But inside my mind I am far from free

My thoughts collide, my senses take over

I become overwhelmed by the smallest sound

Clicking pens, ticking clocks

That boy's chair and the way it rocks

All different smells attacking me

The perfumes, the coffee, the teacher's tea

Take a seat and sit with me

But not too close, I have ASD

I try to be social, I try to fit in

I come across rude, I can never win

I am very literal and straight to the point

If you want the truth I won't disappoint

When my brain is overloaded I sometimes lash out

My control fades, I scream and shout

I get confused and it all spills out

Intense emotions all trapped inside

Finally have nowhere to hide

Take a seat and sit with me I want to tell you about ASD

Please understand I am not to blame I've just got an atypical brain

But it's not all doom and gloom

I'm often the sportiest girl in the room

I'm quirky, unique, kind and caring

I'm loyal, protective and always sharing

I'm obsessed with frogs and all things green

I'm the youngest trendsetter you've ever seen

Take a seat and sit with me

I am Ava, I am me

I'm not just my label of ASD.”

 

Well done to 12-year-old secondary school student Ava who has won a national poetry competition with her entry about living with autism






Saturday, 22 November 2025

The Chalkboard Message






There are people who teach subjects — and then there are those who teach life.
They remind us that the smallest gestures can echo the loudest in the human heart. This is one of those stories.


Every morning, before the first bell rang, Mr. Lawrence would walk into his quiet classroom and pick up a piece of chalk.
Some days he wrote a quote:

“Be kind — everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

Other days it was something simpler:

“You matter.”

It became a quiet ritual.
The students barely noticed at first — rushing in, laughing, complaining about homework. But slowly, the messages began to matter. They’d stop and read, even smile. Sometimes, the words felt like they were written just for them.

One morning, after class, a student lingered.
He looked at the board, then at Mr. Lawrence, and said softly,

“I was going to give up on everything today… but that message stopped me.”

He didn’t say which message. He didn’t need to.
Mr. Lawrence just nodded, his heart full and heavy at the same time.
From that day on, he never missed writing a note — for 25 years. Even on days when his own heart was tired, he kept that chalk moving, line by line, whispering encouragement into the silence.

Because sometimes, hope doesn’t shout.
It’s written in chalk — erased and rewritten, day after day —
until it finds the one heart that needs it most.




Reflection:
We may never know who’s standing on the edge, looking for a reason to stay.
But our small kindnesses — a smile, a word, a message — can be that reason.
What if we each left a little “chalkboard message” in someone’s day?

Quotes to reflect on:

“You never know who needed to see your light today.”

“One small act of encouragement can echo through a lifetime.”

“Even after the last bell rings, their lessons linger.”

“One teacher’s belief can silence a lifetime of doubt.” 








Saturday, 15 November 2025

November We Remember : You Raise Me Up


November We Remember: You Raise Me Up

As the days grow shorter and the air turns gentle with autumn’s calm, November invites us to remember — not only with sorrow, but with gratitude.

We remember the voices that believed in us, the hands that helped us rise, and the hearts that loved us into who we are today. Their presence shaped our paths, their kindness carried us through storms, and their love still lifts us — quietly, faithfully, beyond the limits of what we thought we could be.

When we listen to “You Raise Me Up,” we are reminded that love never truly leaves us. It lives on in the courage we find, the compassion we share, and the peace that settles softly in the spaces where they once stood.

This November, may we pause to give thanks for the lives that raised us higher — and continue to guide us, one quiet moment at a time. 💛


You raise me up 

When I am down and, oh, my soul, so wearyWhen troubles come and my heart burdened beThen I am still and wait here in the silenceUntil You come and sit awhile with me
You raise me up so I can stand on mountainsYou raise me up to walk on stormy seasI am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up so I can stand on mountainsYou raise me up to walk on stormy seasI am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up (up) so I can stand on mountains (stand on mountains)You raise me up to walk on stormy seas (stormy seas)I am strong (I am strong) when I am on Your shoulders (ooh)You raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up (up) so I can stand on mountains (stand on mountains)You raise me up to walk on stormy seas (stormy seas)I am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up to more than I can be

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-8Tp0IVSl8

 






















Sunday, 9 November 2025

"Respect the invisible"

 




RESPECT THE INVISIBLE

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!

I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the cars rear.

It reads...

"Physically challenged; Please be patient.”

And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm and slowed down!!

In fact I got a little protective of the car and the driver.

I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok!

And then it struck me. Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!?

Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!?

Will we be more patient and kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads?

Labels like:

~ Lost my job

~ Fighting cancer

~ Going through a bad divorce

~ Suffering Emotional abuse

~ Lost a loved one

~ Feeling worthless

~ Financially messed up

.....and more like these.

Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about.

The least we can do is be patient and kind.

We don't have to put people through the pressures of explaining over times before we understand their pains and offer our little best.

As you go through each passing day always remember there's an invisible label on everyone.

A simple virtue of patience may just be the respect you're according that invisible label.

Author Unknown





End of Year Reflections

    “We end the year with gratitude and begin the next with hope.” An End-of-Year Reflection As this year comes to a close, we do not look...