Saturday, 13 December 2025

Christmas Forgiveness + Loss

 


The Long Road to Christmas

(Moral: Forgiveness is the longest journey—and the greatest gift.)**

Ben and his younger sister, Ruthie, hadn’t spoken in nearly five years. A bitter argument over their parents’ estate had left both wounded. Their mother had always said,
“Nothing breaks a family faster than pride.”
But neither one had been ready to let go of theirs.

Until this Christmas.

Ben was driving home through a blizzard, the highway nearly invisible beneath swirling snow. His mother’s familiar voice echoed in his memory:
“Come home for Christmas. Your heart needs it.”

At a gas station in the middle of nowhere, Ben noticed a woman struggling with a suitcase. When she turned, his heart stopped.

It was Ruthie.

She gasped. “Ben? What are you doing here?”

“Driving home,” he said awkwardly. “Mom asked.”

“She asked me too,” Ruthie whispered. “My bus broke down.”

Silence stretched between them like a frozen river.

Finally, Ben said, “Get in. I’ll drive you.”

The storm worsened. Snow lashed against the windshield, and the car crawled forward. With no radio signal and the road disappearing every few miles, they sat in heavy silence.

After an hour, Ruthie said quietly, “I miss her.”

“Yeah,” Ben said, voice rough. “Me too.”

Another long pause.
Then Ruthie added, “I miss… us.”

Ben gripped the wheel tighter. “I know.”

Lightning flashed across the sky, followed by distant thunder snow.

“I was angry,” Ruthie said. “Hurt. I thought you didn’t care what I felt.”

“I cared too much,” Ben admitted. “But I didn’t know how to say it without sounding like I was trying to win.”

Ruthie let out a soft laugh. “We treat everything like a competition.”

“Even love,” Ben murmured.

The storm forced them to stop at a tiny roadside inn. There was only one room left, so they sat on opposite beds, awkward and unsure.

Ruthie finally whispered, “Can we start over? Not pretend nothing happened—just… start from here?”

Ben looked at her—really looked at her—for the first time in years.
Her eyes were tired, but hopeful.

“Yeah,” he said. “Here is good.”

The next morning, the snow cleared. They drove the rest of the way home together, sharing memories of childhood Christmases—Ruthie’s crooked gingerbread houses, Ben’s disastrous attempts at gift wrapping, their mother’s laughter echoing in the kitchen.

When they walked into the family home, their mother stood waiting, tears streaming down her face.

“You came together,” she whispered.

Ben and Ruthie exchanged a glance.
“Yeah,” Ruthie said softly. “Together.”

And that Christmas, the greatest gift wasn’t wrapped—it was the courage to forgive.






The Bells of Evergreen Lane

Moral: The heart grows when we listen for what others cannot say.

Evergreen Lane was the most decorated street in Pinebridge every December—strings of lights zigzagging from house to house, inflatable snowmen waving cheerfully at passing cars, wreaths on every door. Every home shimmered with color and sound.

Every home… except one.

At the end of the lane stood an old, weather-beaten cottage with peeling paint and empty windows. No lights. No garland. Not even a wreath. Children walked quickly past it, whispering stories about ghosts and reclusive hermits.

The truth was much simpler—and far sadder.

Inside lived Mr. Rowan, a retired music teacher who had lost his wife, Mara, the previous winter. The two of them had once been the heart of every Christmas celebration in Pinebridge. For forty years, they baked cookies for the neighbourhood, tied ribbons around lamp posts, and played handbells on their porch on Christmas Eve.

Their duet was legendary.

But after Mara passed, the bells went silent. The ribbons untied themselves. The lights burned out. And Mr. Rowan shut the door on Christmas altogether.

One snowy afternoon, ten-year-old Emma Carter, a girl with more curiosity than fear, noticed a faint sound coming from the cottage as she walked home from school—a soft chiming, barely there, as if a memory were whispering through the air.

“Mom!” she said breathlessly when she ran inside her house. “I heard something from Mr. Rowan’s! I think… bells.”

Her mother paused. “Sweetheart, I don’t think Mr. Rowan plays anymore.”

But Emma couldn’t shake it. The sound had been real—gentle, hesitant, like someone trying to remember a song they had once known by heart.

That evening, Emma grabbed her sketchbook and went back to the cottage. She sat on the snowy curb and began sketching—the house, the snow-draped roof, the bare tree branches—hoping the quiet might invite the bells again.

After several minutes, the door creaked open.

Mr. Rowan stepped outside, wearing an old sweater and a look of mild confusion. “Young lady… why are you sitting in the cold?”

Emma stood quickly, holding up her sketchbook like a shield. “I—I wanted to draw your house,” she stammered. “It looks lonely.”

To her shock, Mr. Rowan didn’t snap. He didn’t send her away.
He simply sighed.

“Yes,” he said. “It is.”

There was a long silence. Then Emma asked, softly:
“Was it you? Earlier? The bells?”

A flicker crossed his face—pain? Memory?
He nodded. “I was dusting them. They’ve been hanging on the wall for a year. I touched one by accident.”

“Will you play them?” Emma asked, hopeful.

“No.” The answer was gentle but firm. “Some music hurts more than silence.”

Emma left reluctantly, but something in Mr. Rowan’s voice lingered with her—the slightest tremor of longing.

That night, she gathered the children of Evergreen Lane.

“Mr. Rowan used to play bells with his wife,” she told them. “They haven’t been heard since she died. I think… I think he misses the music. But he’s scared to feel sad again.”

“What can we do?” asked Jacob from next door.

“I have an idea,” Emma said.

And so the children began their plan.

For the next week, they decorated the outside of Mr. Rowan’s cottage—not with loud blow-up decorations, but with small, quiet things:
– hand-drawn stars laminated with tape
– soft, warm lights wrapped gently around the porch
– pinecones dipped in white paint and hung like ornaments
– tiny handwritten notes tucked near the doorstep that read, We’re thinking of you.

Mr. Rowan never came outside, but every day something moved slightly—a note taken inside, a pinecone ornament repositioned. He was watching. And listening.

On Christmas Eve, Emma led the children to the cottage with a basket of tiny bronze bells she’d bought at the crafts store.

They stood on the snowy walkway, each holding a bell. Emma knocked.

Mr. Rowan opened the door, eyes wide.

“Why are you children out here?” he asked, voice thick with surprise.

Emma stepped forward. “We wanted to bring the bells back to Evergreen Lane.”

The children began to ring their bells softly—not loud, not like carollers or performers.
Just gentle, warm chimes, like snowflakes brushing the air.

Mr. Rowan closed his eyes. A tear slid down his cheek.

“I can’t play without Mara,” he whispered.

Emma took a step closer. “Then… play for her.”

In that moment, something in him broke open. He disappeared into the house and returned holding his handbells—beautiful, polished brass, trembling in his grasp.

With shaking hands, he lifted them.

The first note was fragile, wavering.
The second steadier.
The third carried the memory of forty Christmases filled with harmony.

Soon, the bells were singing.
Mr. Rowan’s face lifted.
The children stood around him, their tiny bells chiming softly in harmony.

Neighbours emerged from their homes, drawn by the sound. Lights flicked on all along Evergreen Lane.

For the first time since Mara’s passing, Mr. Rowan’s house wasn’t dark.

It glowed.

And above it all, the bells of Evergreen Lane rang out—not perfect, not polished, but filled with heart.

  • Who in your life might be waiting for a small gesture of connection this season?



Saturday, 6 December 2025

" You are Special "

 



You are Special.

In all the world there is nobody, nobody like you.     Since the beginning of time there has never been another person like you. Nobody has your smile, your voice, your eyes, your hands, your hair.  Nobody has your handwriting. Nobody can paint your brush strokes.

You are Special.

Nobody has your taste for food or music or dance or art. Nobody in the universe sees things as you do. In the whole of time there has never been anyone who laughs in exactly your way, and what makes you laugh or cry may have a totally different response in another.                                                                                                                                            You are different from any other person who has lived in the history of the universe. You are the only one in all creation who has your particular set of abilities. There is always someone who is better at one thing or another. Every person is your superior in at least one way. Nobody in the universe can reach the quality of the combination of your feelings and talents.

Like a roomful of musical instruments some might excel in one way or another but nobody can match the symphonic sound when all are played together.

Your symphony.

Through all eternity no one will ever walk, talk, think or do exactly like you. You are rare and in all rarity there is enormous value. Because of your great value the need for you to imitate anyone else is absolutely wrong.

It is no accident that You are Special.

Please realise that God made you for a special purpose. He has a job for you to do that nobody else can do as well as you can. Out of the billions of applicants only one is qualified. Only one has the unique and right combination of what it takes and that one is you.

You are Special.                                                                                                           





Saturday, 29 November 2025

"Living with Autism"

 




Description of being autistic by Ava

 

“Take a seat and sit with me

I want to talk about ASD

If you don't mind I'd like to explain

A little thing called autism and how it affects my brain

It can make me anxious, angry and afraid

But this stays in my head, on my face it's not displayed

I may seem heartless and question your meanings

But it takes me a little longer to process the feelings

Take a seat and sit with me I want to show you ASD

A girl sitting quietly is all you see

But inside my mind I am far from free

My thoughts collide, my senses take over

I become overwhelmed by the smallest sound

Clicking pens, ticking clocks

That boy's chair and the way it rocks

All different smells attacking me

The perfumes, the coffee, the teacher's tea

Take a seat and sit with me

But not too close, I have ASD

I try to be social, I try to fit in

I come across rude, I can never win

I am very literal and straight to the point

If you want the truth I won't disappoint

When my brain is overloaded I sometimes lash out

My control fades, I scream and shout

I get confused and it all spills out

Intense emotions all trapped inside

Finally have nowhere to hide

Take a seat and sit with me I want to tell you about ASD

Please understand I am not to blame I've just got an atypical brain

But it's not all doom and gloom

I'm often the sportiest girl in the room

I'm quirky, unique, kind and caring

I'm loyal, protective and always sharing

I'm obsessed with frogs and all things green

I'm the youngest trendsetter you've ever seen

Take a seat and sit with me

I am Ava, I am me

I'm not just my label of ASD.”

 

Well done to 12-year-old secondary school student Ava who has won a national poetry competition with her entry about living with autism






Saturday, 22 November 2025

The Chalkboard Message






There are people who teach subjects — and then there are those who teach life.
They remind us that the smallest gestures can echo the loudest in the human heart. This is one of those stories.


Every morning, before the first bell rang, Mr. Lawrence would walk into his quiet classroom and pick up a piece of chalk.
Some days he wrote a quote:

“Be kind — everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

Other days it was something simpler:

“You matter.”

It became a quiet ritual.
The students barely noticed at first — rushing in, laughing, complaining about homework. But slowly, the messages began to matter. They’d stop and read, even smile. Sometimes, the words felt like they were written just for them.

One morning, after class, a student lingered.
He looked at the board, then at Mr. Lawrence, and said softly,

“I was going to give up on everything today… but that message stopped me.”

He didn’t say which message. He didn’t need to.
Mr. Lawrence just nodded, his heart full and heavy at the same time.
From that day on, he never missed writing a note — for 25 years. Even on days when his own heart was tired, he kept that chalk moving, line by line, whispering encouragement into the silence.

Because sometimes, hope doesn’t shout.
It’s written in chalk — erased and rewritten, day after day —
until it finds the one heart that needs it most.




Reflection:
We may never know who’s standing on the edge, looking for a reason to stay.
But our small kindnesses — a smile, a word, a message — can be that reason.
What if we each left a little “chalkboard message” in someone’s day?

Quotes to reflect on:

“You never know who needed to see your light today.”

“One small act of encouragement can echo through a lifetime.”

“Even after the last bell rings, their lessons linger.”

“One teacher’s belief can silence a lifetime of doubt.” 








Saturday, 15 November 2025

November We Remember : You Raise Me Up


November We Remember: You Raise Me Up

As the days grow shorter and the air turns gentle with autumn’s calm, November invites us to remember — not only with sorrow, but with gratitude.

We remember the voices that believed in us, the hands that helped us rise, and the hearts that loved us into who we are today. Their presence shaped our paths, their kindness carried us through storms, and their love still lifts us — quietly, faithfully, beyond the limits of what we thought we could be.

When we listen to “You Raise Me Up,” we are reminded that love never truly leaves us. It lives on in the courage we find, the compassion we share, and the peace that settles softly in the spaces where they once stood.

This November, may we pause to give thanks for the lives that raised us higher — and continue to guide us, one quiet moment at a time. 💛


You raise me up 

When I am down and, oh, my soul, so wearyWhen troubles come and my heart burdened beThen I am still and wait here in the silenceUntil You come and sit awhile with me
You raise me up so I can stand on mountainsYou raise me up to walk on stormy seasI am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up so I can stand on mountainsYou raise me up to walk on stormy seasI am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up (up) so I can stand on mountains (stand on mountains)You raise me up to walk on stormy seas (stormy seas)I am strong (I am strong) when I am on Your shoulders (ooh)You raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up (up) so I can stand on mountains (stand on mountains)You raise me up to walk on stormy seas (stormy seas)I am strong when I am on Your shouldersYou raise me up to more than I can be
You raise me up to more than I can be

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-8Tp0IVSl8

 






















Sunday, 9 November 2025

"Respect the invisible"

 




RESPECT THE INVISIBLE

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!

I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the cars rear.

It reads...

"Physically challenged; Please be patient.”

And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm and slowed down!!

In fact I got a little protective of the car and the driver.

I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok!

And then it struck me. Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!?

Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!?

Will we be more patient and kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads?

Labels like:

~ Lost my job

~ Fighting cancer

~ Going through a bad divorce

~ Suffering Emotional abuse

~ Lost a loved one

~ Feeling worthless

~ Financially messed up

.....and more like these.

Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about.

The least we can do is be patient and kind.

We don't have to put people through the pressures of explaining over times before we understand their pains and offer our little best.

As you go through each passing day always remember there's an invisible label on everyone.

A simple virtue of patience may just be the respect you're according that invisible label.

Author Unknown





Sunday, 26 October 2025

Appreciate and Be Thankful

 





A young man went to seek an important position at a large printing company. He passed the initial interview and was going to meet the director for the final interview. The director saw his resume, it was excellent. And asked, '

Have you received a scholarship for school?' The boy replied, " No '.

 It was your father who paid for your studies? '

Yes.'- He replied.

Where does your father work? '

My father is a Blacksmith'

The Director asked the young to show him his hands.

The young man showed a pair of hands soft and perfect.

 Have you ever helped your parents at their job? '

Never, my parents always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, he can do the job better than me.

The director said:

I have got a request: When you go home today, go and wash the hands of your father and then come see me tomorrow morning.'

The young felt his chance to get the job was high.

When he returned to his house he asked his father if he would allow him to wash their hands.

His father felt strange, happy, but with mixed feelings and showed their hands to his son. The young washed his hands, little by little. It was the first time that he noticed his father's hands were wrinkled and they had so many scars. Some bruises were so painful that his skin shuddered when he touched them.

This was the first time that the young man recognized what it meant for this pair of hands to work every day to be able to pay for his study. The bruises on the hands were the price that he paid for their education, his school activities and his future.

After cleaning his father's hands the young man stood in silence and began to tidy and clean up the workshop. That night, father and son talked for a long time.

The next morning, the young man went to the office of the director.

The Director noticed the tears in the eyes of the young when He asked him: -' Can you tell me what you did and what you learned yesterday at your house?'

The boy replied: -' I washed my father's hands and when I finished I stayed and cleaned his workshop '

 Now I know what it is to appreciate and recognize that without my parents , I would not be who I am today . By helping my father I now realize how difficult and hard it is to do something on my own. I have come to appreciate the importance and the value in helping the family.

The director said, "This is what I look for in my people. I want to hire someone who can appreciate the help of others , a person who knows the hardship of others to do things, and a person who does not put money as his only goal in life". ' You are hired '.

A child that has been coddled, Protected and usually given him what he wants, develops a mentality of " I have the right ' and will always put himself first, ignoring the efforts of their parents. If we are this type of protective parent are we really showing love or are we destroying our children?

You can give your child a big house , good food , computer classes , watch on a big screen TV . But when you're washing the floor or painting a wall , please let him experience that too.

After eating have them wash the dishes with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you have no money to hire someone to do this it's because you want to love them the right way . No matter how rich you are, you want them to understand. One day your hair will have grey hair, like the father of this young man.

The most important thing is that your child learns to appreciate the effort and to experience the difficulties and learn the ability to work with others to get things done. "

 



Saturday, 18 October 2025

My name is Frank

 





My name’s Frank. I’m 64, a retired electrician.

Forty-two years I spent running wires through houses, fixing breakers, making sure people had light in their kitchens and heat in their winters. Never once did anyone ask me where I went to college. Mostly, they just wanted to know if I could get the power back on before their ice cream melted.

Last May, I was at my granddaughter Emily’s school career day. You know the drill —

doctors, lawyers, a software guy in a slick suit talking about “scaling startups.” I was the only one there with a tool belt and work boots.

When it was my turn, I told the kids, “I don’t have a degree. I’ve never sat in a lecture hall. But I’ve wired schools, hospitals, and your principal’s house. And when the hospital generator failed during a snowstorm in ’98, I was the one in the basement with a flashlight, keeping the lights on for newborn babies upstairs.”

The kids leaned forward. They had questions — real ones. “How do you fix stuff in the dark?” “Do you make a lot of money?” “Do you ever get zapped?” (Yes, once, and it’ll curl your hair.)

When the bell rang, one boy hung back. Small kid, freckles, hoodie too big for him. He mumbled, “My uncle’s a plumber. People laugh at him ’cause he didn’t finish high school. But… he’s the only one in the family who can fix anything.”

I looked that boy in the eye and said, “Kid, your uncle’s a hero. When your toilet overflows at midnight, Harvard ain’t sending anyone. A plumber is.”

Here’s the thing nobody told me when I was young — the world doesn’t run without tradespeople. You can have all the engineers you want, but if nobody builds the house, wires the power, or lays the pipes, those blueprints just sit in a drawer.

We’ve made it sound like trades are what you do if you can’t go to college, instead of a path you choose because you like working with your hands, solving problems, and seeing your work stand solid for decades.

Four years after high school, some kids walk away with diplomas. Others walk away with zero debt, a union card, and a skill they can take anywhere in the world. And guess what? When your furnace dies in January, it’s not the diploma that saves you.

A few weeks ago, that same freckled kid’s mom stopped me at the grocery store. She said, “You probably don’t remember, but you told my son trades are important. He’s shadowing his uncle this summer. First time I’ve seen him excited about anything in years.”

That’s the part we forget — for some kids, knowing their path is important and changes everything. It’s not about “just” fixing wires or pipes. It’s about pride. Purpose. The kind that sticks with you long after the job’s done.

So next time you meet a teenager, don’t just ask, “Where are you going to college?” Ask, “What’s your plan?” And if they say, “I’m learning to weld,” or “I’m starting an apprenticeship,” smile big and say, “That’s fantastic. We’re going to need you.”

Because we will. More than ever. And when the lights go out, you’ll be glad they showed up.”





Christmas Forgiveness + Loss

  The Long Road to Christmas (Moral: Forgiveness is the longest journey—and the greatest gift.)** Ben and his younger sister, Ruthie, ha...