Saturday, 26 June 2021

Nelson Mandela - a great man


 

NELSON MANDELA - A Great Man

After becoming president, I asked my escort to lunch at a restaurant. We sat down and each of us asked for what we wanted.

At the front table, there was a man waiting to be answered. When served, I told one of my soldiers: go ask this gentleman to join us. Soldier went and conveyed my invitation to him. The man stood up, took his plate and sat right next to me.

While eating his hands constantly shivered and didn't lift his head off his food. When we were done, he said goodbye to me without just looking at me, I shook his hand and he walked away.

The soldier commented to me:

Madiva that man must have been very sick as his hands wouldn't stop shaking while eating.

No, not at all! The reason for your tremor is another.

So I said to them:

That man was the prison keeper where I was. After he tortured me, I would scream and cry asking for some water and he would humiliate me, laugh at me and instead of giving me water, pissing on my head.

He was sick, he was scared waiting for me now president of South Africa to arrest him and do what he did to me. But that's not who I am, this conduct is not part of my character, nor of my ethics.

′′ Minds seeking vengeance destroy states, while those seeking reconciliation build nations. Walking out the door to my freedom, I knew that if I didn't leave all the anger, hatred and resentment, I would remain a prisoner."

Nelson Mandela.




Friday, 18 June 2021

" Something to think about "


 

Something to think about..

 Barely the day started and... it's already six in the evening.

Barely arrived on Monday and it's already Friday.

... and the month is already over.

... and the year is almost over.

... and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.

... and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.

and we realize it's too late to go back...So... Let's try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time...

Let's keep looking for activities that we like...

Let's put some colour in our grey...

Let's smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts. And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left.

Let's try to eliminate the afters...

I'm doing it after...

I'll say after...

I'll think about it after...

We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.

Because what we don't understand is that:

Afterwards, the coffee gets cold...

Afterwards, priorities change...

Afterwards, the charm is broken...

afterwards, health passes...

Afterwards, the kids grow up...

Afterwards parents get old...

Afterwards, promises are forgotten...

afterwards, the day becomes the night...

afterwards life ends...

And then it's often too late....So... Let's leave nothing for later...

Because still waiting see you later, we can lose the best moments,

the best experiences,

best friends,

the best family...

The day is today... The moment is now...





Saturday, 12 June 2021

I am that Mum


 



I am that Mum

I am that Mum

The one with that child,

And when you look up

I see your fake smile.

You don't say a word

Your eyes give you away,

I've seen it before

"I'm sorry..." they say.

For you see a burden

An unfortunate fate,

Where I see a gift

And the hearts that have changed.

You've not been a witness

When I've shed happy tears,

Over every small milestone

And each conquered fear.

You've not seen the beauty

Of the journey, fought hard,

We began with so little

But we've travelled so far.

It's an uphill battle

But it's worth every step,

Would I do it again?

My answer is yes.

I am that mum

And this is my child,

And he's so much more

Than the label you've filed.

Please give him a chance

It's the least you can do,

And I won't be surprised

When he wins your heart too.

Author Unknown





Saturday, 5 June 2021

Make a Difference


 Make a Difference

A man was asked to paint a boat. He brought his paint and brushes and began to paint the boat a bright red, as the owner asked him.

While painting, he noticed a small hole in the hull, and quietly repaired it.

When he finished painting, he received his money and left.

The next day, the owner of the boat came to the painter and presented him with a nice check, much higher than the payment for painting.

The painter was surprised and said “You've already paid me for painting the boat Sir!”

“But this is not for the paint job. It's for repairing the hole in the boat.”

“Ah! But it was such a small service... certainly it's not worth paying me such a high amount for something so insignificant.”

“My dear friend, you do not understand. Let me tell you what happened:

“When I asked you to paint the boat, I forgot to mention the hole.

“When the boat dried, my kids took the boat and went on a fishing trip.

“They did not know that there was a hole. I was not at home at that time.

“When I returned and noticed they had taken the boat, I was desperate because I remembered that the boat had a hole.

“Imagine my relief and joy when I saw them returning from fishing.

“Then, I examined the boat and found that you had repaired the hole!

“You see, now, what you did? You saved the life of my children! I do not have enough money to pay your 'small' good deed.”

So no matter who, when or how, continue to help, sustain, wipe tears, listen attentively, and carefully repair all the 'leaks' you find. You never know when one is in need of us, or when God holds a pleasant surprise for us to be helpful and important to someone.

Along the way, you may have repaired numerous 'boat holes' for several people without realizing how many lives you've save.

Make a difference....

 



Forgiveness

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