Saturday, 25 June 2022

Paulo Coelho - Quotes that can change your life.


50 Quotes from The Alchemist’s Author - Paulo Coelho - that can change your life

About life, fate and adventures:

1. We are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.

2. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

3. When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny.

4. I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It's all a question of how I view my life.

5. No matter what he does, every person on earth plays a central role in the history of the world. And normally he doesn't know it.

About following your dreams:

6. It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting.

7. There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.

8. Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.

9. People are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of.

10. Whenever you want to achieve something, keep your eyes open, concentrate and make sure you know exactly what it is you want. No one can hit their target with their eyes closed.




11. We must never stop dreaming. Dreams provide nourishment for the soul, just as a meal does for the body. Many times in our lives we see our dreams shattered and our desires frustrated, but we have to continue dreaming. If we don't, our soul dies, and agape cannot reach it.

12. And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.

Never wasting your time:

13. One day you will wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things you’ve always wanted. Do it now.

14. I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present. If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy man. Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living now.

15. None of us knows what might happen even the next minute, and yet still we go forward. Because we trust. Because we have Faith.

16. The secret is here in the present. If you pay attention to the present, you can improve upon it. And, if you improve on the present, what comes later will also be better. Forget about the future, and live each day according the the teachings, confident that God loves his children. Each day, in itself, brings with it an eternity.

About lessons in our lives:

17. There are moments when troubles enter our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them. But they are there for a reason. Only when we have overcome them will we understand why they were there.

18. All you have to do is to pay attention; lessons always arrive when you are ready, and if you can read the signs, you will learn everything you need to know in order to take the next step.

19. Forgive but do not forget, or you will be hurt again. Forgiving changes the perspectives. Forgetting loses the lesson.

20. There is only one way to learn. It's through action. Everything you need to know you have learned through your journey.

 


About the loss:

21. Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever finally comes to realise that nothing really belongs to them.

22. No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.

23. When someone leaves, its because someone else is about to arrive- I'll find love again.

24. You are not defeated when you lose. You are defeated when you quit.

25. When faced by any loss, there's no point in trying to recover what has been; it's best to take advantage of the large space that opens up before us and fill it with something new.

26. If you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.

27. It is always important to know when something has reached its end. Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn't matter what we call it; what matters is to leave in the past those moments in life that are over.

28. Close some doors. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.

About judging others’ life:

29. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.

30. We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.



Listen to your heart:

31. Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.

32. You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it's better to listen to what it has to say.

Face your fear:

33. When you find your path, you must not be afraid. You need to have sufficient courage to make mistakes. Disappointment, defeat, and despair are the tools God uses to show us the way.

34. And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

35. Being human means having doubts and yet still continuing on your path.

36. Talent is a universal gift, but it takes a lot of courage to use it. Don't be afraid to be the best.

Always control your fate:

37. You are what you believe yourself to be.

38. You have two choices, to control your mind or to let your mind control you.

39. If you conquer yourself, then you conquer the world.



About love:

40. One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving.

41. This is what we call love. When you are loved, you can do anything in creation. When you are loved, there's no need at all to understand what's happening, because everything happens within you.

42. Certain things in life simply have to be experienced -and never explained. Love is such a thing.

43. Love is not to be found in someone else, but in ourselves; we simply awaken it. But in order to do that, we need the other person. The universe only makes sense when we have someone to share our feelings with.

44. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better, too.

And others:

45. The simple things are also the most extraordinary things, and only the wise can see them.

46. Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.

47. Words are tears that have been written down. Tears are words that need to be shed. Without them, joy loses all its brilliance and sadness has no end.

48. Your eyes show the strength of your soul.

49. Never explain―your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway.

50. Every blessing ignored becomes a curse.

  



Saturday, 11 June 2022

" The Good Old Days " v "Today"


 

KIDS THESE DAYS WOULD LAUGH AT THIS, BUT IT'S SO TRUE…..

When I grew up our tea time was at a regular time, Sunday’s was a roast, simple as that!

Eating out was not heard of, we only had a take away on special occasions, only received a present on birthdays and at Christmas. None of this Halloween, Easter and Play dates.

Fast food was fish and chips and having a bottle of lemonade from the shop was a real treat.

You took your school clothes off as soon as you got home and put on your 'playing out' clothes. - children looked like children, we didn't pout, wear makeup or have anxiety. There was no taking or picking you up in the car, you walked or rode your bike!

Our house phone had a cord attached, so there was no such things as private conversations or mobile phones! Ours was out in the hall.

We didn’t have Now TV, Sky or Netflix, we had only 3 channels to watch. Channel 4 and 5 was an exciting addition! we had to watch all of the adverts unless you switched to BBC.

We played rounders, kick the can, Hide & Seek, nick nack, Football, climbed trees, daisy chains and Rode Bikes.

Everyone could play ball! We used tops for goalposts. A wheelie and bunnyhop on your bike was a standard skill and we used cartons in the spokes of the wheel so it sounded like a motorbike.

Staying in the house was a PUNISHMENT and the only thing we knew about "bored" was --- "You better find something to do, before I find it for you!"

We ate what me Ma made for our tea or we ate nothing at all. If we rushed our tea we weren't allowed to go back out and if we didn't eat it, we weren't allowed back out either

Bottled water was not a thing; we drank from the tap.

We had scraps, some we lost, some we won but we always had a go back.... Or we got another one when we got home

We watched cartoons on Saturday mornings, and rode our bikes for hours and ran around.

We weren't AFRAID OF ANYTHING. We played till dark... street lights were our alarm.

If someone had a fight, that's what it was and we were friends again a week later, if not SOONER.

We watched our MOUTHS around our elders because ALL of our aunts, uncles, grandpas, grandmas, AND our parents' best friends were all extensions of our PARENTS and you didn't want them telling your parents if you misbehaved! Or they would give you something to cry about. Everyone had respect.

I did my research by borrowing books from the library. Internet was non existent and no Google!

We saw toys on adverts and had to wait until 'santa' came before we expected. None of the amazon same day crap

These were the good days. So many kids today will never know how it feels to be a real kid .




  


Friday, 3 June 2022

" A Bird without Wings "

 





A Bird Without Wings

Song by Celtic Thunder

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYv4gy_Sh4c&ab_channel=CelticThunder

Like a bird without wings
That longs to be flying,
Like a motherless child
Left lonely and crying.
Like a song without words,
Like a world without music,
I wouldn't know what to do
I'd be lost without you
Watchin' over me.

I get so lonely, when you're away
I count every moment, I wait every day,
Until you're home again
And hug me so tight
That's when I know
Everything is alright.

Like a bird without wings
That longs to be flying,
Like a motherless child
Left lonely and crying.
Like a song without words
Like a world without music,
I wouldn't know what to do
I'd be lost without you
Watchin' over me.

You're my guardian angel
My light and my guide
Your hand on my shoulder
And you by my side.
You make everything beautiful,
You make me complete.
Everything in my world
I lay at your feet

Like a church with no steeple,
Where a bell never rings.
In a town without people,
Where no voice in the choir ever sings.
If a boat on the ocean
Would be lost with no sail,
Then without your devotion
Surely all that I dreamed of would fail.

Like a song without words
Like a world without music,
I wouldn't know what to do
I'd be lost without you
Watchin' over me

I wouldn't know what to do
I'd be lost without you
Watchin' over me




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