One Day
it will be You !
“Twice this week, I have watched an elderly
individual, fade into the busy life in which we all live. One man just needed
Panadol for his wife but the shop assistant simply said it’s in aisle ‘6’. But
he struggled to navigate the supermarket and as I watched him go in the wrong
direction, I left all my groceries and took him where he needed to go.”
“Today,
I watched an elderly man struggle in the heat, who had obviously had a fall
with a huge scrape and blood on his leg. He walked past people in the cafe, while
he slowly made his way to his car. Not one person stopped. Or looked. Or
acknowledged him. I took him to his car and checked he was ok. He told me he
had a fall and wasn’t sure how the air con worked in his car so he just didn’t
use it. I sat with him, until his air con kicked in and heard him talk about
the old frail body that he is in, that fails him now, every single day.”
“When
you see an elderly person walking down the street, searching in the supermarket
or struggling to their car, take a minute out of your busy schedule and ask
them if they need a hand. Think about your grandparents and your parents and
how upset you would be if someone didn’t stop to help them. But more, think of
them as you.”
“Once
upon a time they were you. They were busy, they had work, they had children,
and they were able. Today, they are just in an older body that is not going as
fast as it used to and this busy life is confusing. They deserve our utmost
respect and consideration. One day it will be you, it will be us. I wish more
people cared more about them and acknowledged them for their admirable
existence and jeez I hope someday, not that far away, someone does it for me.”
Thanks to the author, Adele Renee.
How apt! Society needs a chill pill, something to slow the high speed train we all seem to be riding. The older generation made sacrifices for us, the young ones- they slaved hard in a world which had a lot less luxury, so that we could have the best they had to offer. Now think about pay-back time. Slow down and make a genuine gesture to someonw whi could do with a bit of help, or maybe simply a bit of TIME.
ReplyDeleteWell thought out response and very good advice !
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