Advice for children / teens starting back at School
My daughter starts middle school tomorrow. We've decorated her locker,
bought new uniforms, even surprised her with a new backpack. But tonight just
before bed, we did another pre-middle school task that is far more important
than the others. I gave her a tube of toothpaste and asked her to squirt it out
onto a plate. When she finished, I calmly asked her to put all the toothpaste
back in the tube. She began exclaiming things like "But I can't!" and
"It won't be like it was before!" I quietly waited for her to finish
and then said the following:
"You will remember this plate of
toothpaste for the rest of your life. Your words have the power of life or
death. As you go into middle school, you are about to see just how much weight
your words carry. You are going to have the opportunity to use your words to
hurt, demean, slander and wound others. You are also going to have the
opportunity to use your words to heal, encourage, inspire and love others. You
will occasionally make the wrong choice; I can think of three times this week I
have used my own words carelessly and caused harm. Just like this toothpaste,
once the words leave your mouth, you can't take them back. Use your words
carefully. When others are misusing their words, guard your words. Make the
choice every morning that life-giving words will come out of your mouth. Decide
tonight that you are going to be a life-giver in middle school. Be known for
your gentleness and compassion. Use your life to give life to a world that so
desperately needs it. You will never, ever regret choosing kindness."
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